27
May
In case you haven’t seen this…. I LOVE IT! SpokenWord awesomeness…. I cry every time cause I’m such a sap and life is just like this….
Enjoy Sarah Kaye and Phil Kaye in “An Origin Story,” the story of how they met.
Wow, this is SO good.
Esquire Theme by Matthew Buchanan
Social icons by Tim van Damme
27
May
In case you haven’t seen this…. I LOVE IT! SpokenWord awesomeness…. I cry every time cause I’m such a sap and life is just like this….
Enjoy Sarah Kaye and Phil Kaye in “An Origin Story,” the story of how they met.
Wow, this is SO good.
for unknown reasons, I just really love that Myka wears boyshorts
it fills me with warm and fuzzies
I am unable to recall the scene in question.
I made it a…
Reblogging for aces’ comment HA…
26
May
Is it bad that i feel like doing an evil laugh when i read how dejected the Bo/Dyson fans are after season 2?
no, no it’s not.
25
May
I’ve been working my butt off for the past several days so I haven’t been able to respond to any of the TV guide article/ensuing craziness in the WH13 tag. I don’t want to add yet another post about it (especially since I watch this show for me and me alone..) But I do want to say this because I…
I’ve been waiting for someone to post about this, mostly because I’ve been holding back on the subject myself. Without going into the reasons for why I am not fond of Pete/Myka getting together, I do want to reiterate your point about the heteronormative aim of the media.
I like women. I also happen to like men. For me, the actual representations of my life - and the ability to connect with characters as a result of it - are RIDICULOUSLY slim.
What are my current choices? Bo from Lost Girl? Yes, I can see myself identifying with a succubus - which is just the supernatural way of calling the bisexual a slut. Oh, or what about… hrm… wait… oh, that’s right. There aren’t any other shows.
There was once H.G. Wells, but she was a bleeding psychopath. If you can look past that she is the most recent bisexual character who isn’t openly and clearly promiscuous (although the writers made sure we knew she had been).
Before her there was Dr. Remy “Thirteen” Hadley from House. Other than the one episode where we find her spiraling out of control due to control issues over her terminal illness, she is THE ONLY representation of a quality bisexual character who is not pulled out straight-ville for sweeps week and then put back in the closet again - nor is she sleeping with someone new every other day.
When is the last time you witnessed a bisexual character who entered into a loving relationship with either a man or a woman without it being either a) gratuitous, b) a sign of her promiscuity, or c) a method for her to be manipulative for some nefarious purpose? For me, I WANT H.G. and Myka together not just because it’s hot or awesome or whatever - I want it because of how the characters have played that relationship.
It is love. It is not hormonal physicality. It is something emotional and deep that transcends the gratuitous. It is the kind of REAL emotion that most of us either have felt ourselves or want to feel. If they never show them engaging physically I would be fine - so long as we get to know they will continue to love one another as hopelessly and helplessly as they do.
It is one of the biggest things I loved about the introduction of H.G. - that Myka does not see her as “another female friend”. She sees her for WHO she is, and she fell in love with that person. The gender issue did not matter to how she felt. What she does with those feelings may be another matter, but her love was unconditional, and I adore that.
Maybe H.G. will return, and maybe not, but the last thing I think I could tolerate at this point is for the Myka I know and love to end up in any sort of stereotype. I just don’t think I could handle that.
Thanks for bringing up the topic of the LGBTQ community. Let us hope the respect they have shown us continues.
(A little off W13 topic) I totally get what you’re saying and I agree with most of it. You are so right that bisexuals (also pansexuals, queers, etc.) are not only underrepresented in the media - there are barely any of them at all. I don’t want to be obnoxious or be nit picking but, I think it’s unfair to characterize one of the very few examples of characters with a fluid sexuality as a slut. Lost Girl should be applauded for their depiction of a character that not only doesn’t feel the need to apologize for not being heterosexual, she doesn’t need to apologize for having sex a lot. You may not connect with her, but just because she has a lot of casual sex doesn’t mean she’s not a quality bisexual character.
Sometimes I secretly lurk on tumblr not doing much other than refreshing and checking to see if the fanfic I’m invested in at the time has been updated. This leads to me being awake with nothing to show for it at 3am… bad life choices.
Oh goodness. Well, it’s updated now…
Thanks so much for the update it’s wonderful! I’m excited to get into HG and Myka’s investigation. I hope Pete calms down.
I don’t mean to pressure you. It’s just really good and I’m hooked. We appreciate your hard work and don’t want your keyboard to turn into dust either.
Rachel Maddow tops Autostraddle Hot 100 list…of course.
nchl:
New Comic Day! I said I was too busy, which of course meant I made one 16 hours later.
I got several, “Oh I never saw THAt tattoo on your arm before.”
“Well,” I said, “I’m slowly building up to a sleeve when I have the money to do so.”“Oh god, Nichole! Don’t do that! Your arms are so pretty and what about what it’ll look like when you’re in a wedding dress?!”
“I think it’ll look great since I’ll like the art”
“Yes, sure, but I just think that looks so tacky!”Then don’t fucking get tattoos for your wedding dress!
Plus why is my goal of life to look good in a god damn wedding dress? Why isn’t it to be covered in art I love that reflects who I am?
I also got a few similar thing when I said I was think of dying my hair red again (or at least ginger) after about half a year of it being dark brown/black.
I got a “Oh! But I love your black hair! Its sucha pretty colour! I’ve always wanted that colour of hair!”May I note my mother dyes her hair ALL of the time and it’s always brown with blond highlights. If she really wanted dark hair so much, she would’ve dyed it black at least once.
/eternal frustration of other people telling you how they think you’d look better
Rebloggin’ my own comic ‘cause that commentary ^ deserves the highest of fives.
AMEN!
Sorry I keep posting this , it kept deleting, but it’s finally up for good.
Love Ain’t Free Myka/HG
I just remembered HG with the imperceptor vest on and her hair up…
DAMN!!!